My Profile

Hey there,
my name is Matt, 38 years old from Bochum in Germany. I'm an after 13 Years of relationship and marriage divorced man, who is pretty much alone with some short encounters for about a year. After some troublesome years i needed my first real break after nearly 25 years of working and entrepreneurship and had have an sabbatical the last 18 months, to reflect my life, myself and especially my mental health. I took care of all my old carriage, most belongings (and my beloved cars *cry* besides one) and planned to start over in Tanzania with a very adventures project.. but as turned out after a three day visit, this damn Canadian lied about nearly everything, so i canceled my contract, called a friend and am again an entrepreneur from January the 1st. You can't teach new habbits to old dogs, as it is said.
To myself, i am an mechanical Engineer (BE,ME), studied Apllied Mathematics for fun because i love numbers, learned more in London and Boston and got my MBA and finished while i have been on the sabbatical my third Bachelor-Degree as an Economy-Engineer (BE). And yes, i love to learn and get better, extend my horizon and explore, what the world has to offer for me, after my nearly perfect life broke down because of a tragic event.
I am an really open-minded person, on all aspects, and have been it during my relationship with my Ex-Wife as well. I don't know when during my late tenths i decided that i don't want to cut the pool of potential sexual-partners artificially smaller and decided to call myself pansexual. But there is an exception for romantic relationships, cause i still have not given up my biggest wish to become a dad one day, hopefully with the right and perfect woman. On the sexual level i don't care for your gender, i look for the human and if i got attracted to the real person you are. A very important fact about me: I am allergic to stupid questions and stupidity, ignorance and advice resistance in genral, racism, nationalism, Trumpism, religious hate, and everything else you won't bring up on Christmas at the family table, knowing exactly, that it will explode.
Never ask me irelevant questions about my bodycount, i won't answer this question. If you want to try to make me angry, good luck, but deal with the consequences. I recently left the German Bundeswehr Active Reserve Troops as First Lieutenant after serving since i started to study. On the Date today i've been to 87 different countries during my career, but most times i just hadn't enough time to explore the beauty and secrets of these places. I'm thinking about of recruiting an assistant for future adventures, applications appreciated. And i recognize, that i'm writing to much informations down here and i won't have to talk about anything later. Maybe just some specs: 193cm tall, 92kgs, sporty figure. Visiting the gym twice a week and go swimming and to the sauna on the weekends. I did competitive swimming for a few years while i was in school and always loved water. Rescue Diver in the highest qualification, trained paramedic, excellent in Krav-Maga. I love to go sailing and diving at least once every year, will start to work on my captains patent this year, if my times allow it. And if you know a cliff higher than 30m to jump from in the sea, let me know.
You can be sure, when i introduce myself and maybe forget to tell you: An honor to meet you, i may be your next big mistake, or the guy you had been looking for.
I never send a di*kpick in 38,5 years and that time will be at least doubled, so don't ask for that. I'll never ask for n*de pictures from my side, if you want to surprise me, feel free. If you really want to know, i can tell you, but you have to confess the biggest sin you did ever. And seriously, i am tall, my hands are big like excavator shovels, my shoe size is 49(14) and my head is just so big because i have to memorize so much ^^. I keep the rest to fantasize for you. My sexual preferences are, in casual sex, everything thrilling, excinting, interesting and anything else you might suggest except of boring bedroom flower-sex with the light switched out. On another side i am interested and active in the BDSM-scene... but not the black leather fraction, actually, i hate it to be honest. Pseudo-dominant males and females try to lead maybe submissive partners through crying, violence and unexperienced use of potential dangerous tools. If you're not a dominant person, don't try to impersonate one.
The way i am going is the Gentle-Dom way. I'll never cry at you, will hurt you or do anything else on the physical way. I'll be using the more efficient, sustainable and interesting way, i'll train your mind. This can be from Characterizing, Trait losses and gains, Fear-control, blockade releases and a few other things. You think that doesn't work? Maybe you'll see it in my dangerous grey-blue eyes one day. And never play "you don'T have the courage to do this and that", it will cost you, but i'll do it and your loss will be my glory ;)
my 2 cents
Matt