Loyalty isn't about words, it's about action. If someone claims they've got your back but disappears when things get tough, they're exposing their true value. Don't keep people who only show up for the easy parts. “‘Have I gone mad?’ ‘I am afraid so, you are entirely bonkers. but I will tell you a secret… all the best people are.‘”- Alice in wonderland A secret to happiness is to be as weird as you like and the wrong people will leave the party but the right ones will join the dance if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. "Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll stay where you always are. The scars you share become lighthouses for others who are headed to the same rocks you hit.